What can I use to style my hair and still keep it soft?

I used to keep my hair short since any longer it gets out of control waviness. But since my friend turned me to hair relaxers to straighten it out, now I'm trying to grow it longer. But I find that after I style it, people don't like how hard it is since I use gel. So what can I use to style my hair that has decent hold with out getting hard but also doesn't build up since I now don't shampoo my hair everyday.

What can I use to style my hair and still keep it soft?

I like Lets Jam Shining %26amp; Conditioning Gel. It has mega hold and it never gets hard or crunchy. It works well on lot's of different hair types too. You can find it at almost any Walgreens type store or hair supply store.

What can I use to style my hair and still keep it soft?

try garnier fruictis,shampoo conditioner and styling products green bottle i use it on my hair everyday,there are lots of things to choose from depends on what u wanna do with your hair its inexpensive too. be sure and read the back just to see if its what ur looking for

What can I use to style my hair and still keep it soft?

in the shower use herbal essences hello hydration shampoo and any brand of tea tree conditioner. out of the shower use john freida hairspray. once a day, lie on your stomach on the sofa and put your head over the side so your hair hangs down. brush with the natural bristle brush to spread natural oils in your hair.

What can I use to style my hair and still keep it soft?

American Crew makes a cream styler... the label is green. It will not make your hair greasy and has a soft hold... only use a very small amount! Also, emulsify the product in your hands till you can no longer see it, apply back to front. Most salons will let you exchange products if they don't work for you... even if they have been used.