Hair Gurus! How do I get my hair to look defined like this? (PIC)?

I am a man and I have very very full, thick, frizzy, wavy almost curly hair. I hate trying to manage it since it's so difficult to deal with, but I look TERRIBLE with short hair, and when my hair gets longer I start to get the "Napoleon Dynomite" hairstyle. I know I need to do *something* with it, but I don't know what, or how. I think I'd look pretty good if I could manage to condition it to look like this, but I'm not sure how. What's the trick?

This is just one example, I've seen other guys around with hair done like this before, I just need to know what product and/or method to use. All I know is that typical gel marketed to guys makes my hair crunchy.

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Hair Gurus! How do I get my hair to look defined like this? (PIC)?

try chi pliable polish and the a little hair spray

Hair Gurus! How do I get my hair to look defined like this? (PIC)?

Murrays Hair Pomade. It's inexpensive and you can find it at any drugstore.

Hair Gurus! How do I get my hair to look defined like this? (PIC)?

i style my hair some what like that i use bead head manipulator and or some times i use their hair spray.